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RANGE OF RESULTS Having done the best you can to work with all stakeholders, you might encounter a range of outcomes. For a variety of reasons, each process is different and takes on a life of its own. The results will likely be a little more grey than completely black and white, including some successes and some opportunities for learning. Possible consultation outcomes
While not predictable, the consultation process is almost always interesting. Although the outcomes are not always idyllic, effective consultation at least gives all voices a chance to be heard. That alone is significant, for engagement is key to building good communities. Although outcomes are not necessarily a function of how well the consultation process was executed, the tips on the next page will reduce the likelihood of negative outcomes. |
Consensus is a group decision (which some members may not feel is the best decision, but which they can all live with, support, and commit themselves to not undermine) arrived at without voting, through a process whereby the issues are fully aired, all members feel they have been adequately heard, in which everyone has equal power and responsibility, and whereby different degrees of influence by virtue of individual stubbornness or charisma are avoided so that all are satisfied with the process.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU CANNOT AGREE Consultation efforts do not always bring agreement. Then again, imagine a world where everyone agreed. Good and creative things often grow out of healthy expressions of differing viewpoints. Once we recognize that differing opinions are not only allowed but preferred, the process and its resultswhatever they areseem less threatening. Enjoy the process for whatever it brings. Do not try to shortcut it or muzzle dissent. This will inevitably come to haunt the project and could create difficulties later on. When discussions go off the rails or even look like they might go wrong, you do have options for action. What is more, dealing proactively with conflict raises new opportunity for creative solutions. When parties take corrective action together, they build a shared interest in an agreed-upon outcome. See p. 121 for a conflict checklist. |
From my own experience, consensus is rare because it is a lot of work. I have found it effective only in small groups of about 10, when all are sincere in obtaining a result that is agreeable to all. -- Sheila Bowker, Conflict comes from differencesin needs, values and motivations ... Conflict is not a problem in itself it is what we do with it that counts. Conflict Resolution Network (www.crnhq.org) |
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Practical stepsAs a first step, put yourself in the other party’s shoes and answer some important questions.
As a second step, try good old-fashioned talking. Simply and calmly discuss your concerns or issues with those directly involved. You may be surprised. People are often a lot more reasonable than we expect. At later stages of impasse, mediation and/or group facilitation can get things back on track. Other conflict resolution tools
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“A half-hearted consultation can often be worse than no consultation at all because it runs the risk of offending and belittling people...” -- Ben Henderson, “My neighbour across the alley recently received an allowance to build a larger-than-permitted garage. I received the notice and initially felt quite miffed about it. I talked to him, and he explained why and how he was going to build thegarage. I felt a lot better about the whole thing.” Lynn Parish, neighbour |
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RESOURCES Alberta Arbitration and Mediation Society www.aams.ab.ca Mediation and Restorative Justice Centre (Formerly the Edmonton Community Mediation Society and the Edmonton Victim Offender Mediation Society). www.mrjc.ca #430, 9810 - 111 St. NW, Edmonton, Alberta, T5K 1K1 Tel: (780) 423-0896, Community Mediation Direct Line: (780) 424-4632, Fax: (780) 423-2467 Talking with Your Neighbour, Mediation and Restorative Justice Centre. |
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